Celebrity Breakups, Cheating, Lies, And Deception!

Arnold Schwarzenegger committed adultery with a trusted maid who had worked for the couple for twenty years and has a love child with her. Can you only imagine the hurt and pain after finding out. What is amazing is how she still worked there and no one knew or said anything. Know one knows why Arnold after ten years after the affair would have come forward now. Is it the fact he is out of office serving as Governor Of California? Or perhaps the secret could no longer remain a secret. The women pictured in my article are all beautiful, talented, ethical and hard working women. Why would these men risk losing them. Is it boredom?, lack of sex?, or intimacy gone? The answer is NO!!!! What do all of these men have in common? Wealth, good looks, and an ego complex. They are living for themselves. Can you imagine the temptation they must face everyday. Some women do not even care if a man is married. This is very sad in our society. I make no excuses but if a man values his marriage and wife they can turn down any form of temptation.

You can only live a lie for so long. You can't keep the sin under the carpet for long. Sooner or later the truth will always set you free. It is even said in the Bible. You can live life that way if you choose or you can have a rich, loving marriage by staying in ethics and living life with morals. I know in todays society, it is hard but if you free yourself from sinning only good karma can follow. “ The saying what comes around, goes around” I believe that is so true. I think these men can possibly change but only if they really want and desire too. Sometimes losing something and hitting rock bottom is the only way too.

I hate hearing in the news about another marriage breaking up , especially after 25 years of marriage. This marriage can possibly be saved but both parties need to want and desire too. It would take time and forgiveness. Once the trust is broken in a relationship it is hard to recover from it. Trust is the foundation of any relationship. It does say in the bible a woman can divorce her husband if he cheats and the same regarding a woman if she cheats. Otherwise it is for better or worse. I can't blame these women for divorcing. Respecting, and trusting is a big part of loving someone. Trust is earned and rebuilding it can take a long time, especially if someone has cheated. If there is no trust there is no survival of the marriage. Do you know someone that has had an affair and is still married? Feel free to leave any comments.

Sincerely,

Sandy