What Do Women Really Want In A Relationship

1. Intimacy

Woman and men are different as far as relationships go. Listen up men we are not that hard to figure out. The main thing women want from men is time. You need to make us a priority in your life. This is number one on the list also intimacy. If you get too busy and forget us we get resent full and argumentative at times. We are simple. It does not take allot of money to spend time with us. We like attention and affection. A kiss goodbye, a phone call just to see how are day is going. We want to feel important in your life. Basically communication. We do love to be adored!!! You don't have to lavish us with expensive gifts but once in a while is nice!

A sweet text message or email can just make our day. When men stop courting women we feel a loss of interest. Why do you think so many people are on Face Book? It's all about communication. The more communication the better. We want to feel a closeness with our man. So what if you see your girlfriend or wife everyday, try sending her an email or text. If your complaining there is a lack of sex, raise the communication and affinity, and watch what happens.

2. Love

Most importantly we just want to be loved. We want to feel loved by you. The actions and words have to match up. If they don't we will question it. We do not want to guess or play mind games. If you show it we will return it. We want the man to chase us and pursue us. We know its modern times but we want you to be the aggressor. We love it. We want to be swept off our feet. The more romantic the better. If your not the romantic type become the romantic type. You can get to our hearts through our emotions. If you want us to know, show it.

3. SEX

The next is sex. We like to be loved and feel a closeness with our partner. Don't be shy in this area. We really do want to know what you want and feel. Most important we want you to know as well. We do not want a wham bam thank you mam!! a 10 min quickie is not what we want. We want foreplay and lots of it. If your a bad lover we won't tell you, we will just fake it. You will know because we will just roll over and pretend to be tired. We definitely want to be pleased and have an orgasm. I had a friend who's husband was horrible in this department. She finally had the courage to tell him and he got a book. She said after he read it, he was so amazing and she was so glad to tell him. It can be hard for a man to face if he does not know what to do. We love to be kissed passionately. Especially on the neck and other places, you get the picture. After love making we love to talk and be held close. This is a must!!!

We want to feel like we matter in your life! We want to be asked for our opinion. We want to be an equal. A compliment goes a long ways. If we get our hair done, please take notice and say something. If we cook a nice dinner, please let us know! If both people are working we need to share in the household chores. If you expect the woman to work and manage a household, WATCH out! you will have one bitchy wife on your hands. She will become resentfull as well. Try to split things up equally. This is the biggest complaint women have in the relationship. We want a partner in our lives.

4. Support

What do I mean by support? We want a man to hold his own. We want his love and support. If we have something special to tell you, we want you to listen and encourage us. We also want to lean on you when we are down and out. Cheer us up! Tell us something funny so we can laugh. We love a sense of humor in a man. Not stupid, just funny! We also want you to better yourself in any way shape or form. Intelligence goes a long way. We love a man who wants to further his career and be educated. He does not have to be rich in money but we do want him to be financially responsible. We want him to pay his bills on time and to keep his credit good.

5. Truth

We just want our man to be honest with us. If your late, tell us why. Trust me there is no reason to lie about it. We have women's intuition. If you want to go out with the guys just let us know. If you are not getting home at a reasonable hour, we want a respect full phone call to be made. Also please answer your phone when we do call, because if you don't we will spin. We will think something horrible has happened and when it doesn't and you do come home late, yes we will get mad! Even if, nothing bad did happen this is just the way we are! If you want to keep the peace definitely make the effort to call. Honesty goes a long way with us.

6. Remember Special Occasions

We want to be remembered on special occasions. Our Birthdays and anniversaries. We just like knowing you remember and care. We want your words to match your actions. A special card or token gift goes a long ways! It makes us feel loved and important. These are all the things we really want in a relationship.