Why Do Married Men Cheat On Their Wives?
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Does this look familiar?
Why Married Men Cheat?
Why do married men cheat on their wives?
Ten signs to look for if your man is cheating.
1. Time- is he spending more time away from you? he could be avoiding you because your relationship has changed.
2. Computer- Is he spending more and more time on the computer? does he delete the screen, he is on when you come into the room?
3. Phone calls- Is he getting strange phone calls late at night? Is he leaving the room to answer these calls? Does he have a phone calling card?
4. Chatting- Is he going into chat rooms in the computer, you may find this no big deal! Just talking right? Have you ever been in a chat room check it out and see for yourself if, Is it just chatting? Sure it is ?
5. Time- Does he come home late and have a time issue? Stuck in traffic Sorry I had to work late tonight honey. Lots of excuses of why he cannot seem to make it home on time? This is a sure sign that something is not right.
6. Defensive- Does he get really defensive and judgemental when you ask him questions? Does he put the blame on you?
7. Sex- Is he still having sex with you? Has his behavior in this matter changed. Is he too tired. Just not interested in making love with you? has he kissed you passionately lately?
8. Lying- are you catching him in lies and you feel like your going crazy?
9. Bills- Is he grabbing the mail before you get home. Is he making sure you don't get a good look at them.
10. Dressing- how is he dressing? Is he dressing better? Wearing cologne for a change. Is he concerned more about his appearance? Working out more? Has his habits changed in this regard?
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Keep your man Happy at home
Listen up ladies look out for the signs and keep your man happy at home so he doesn't stray.
Things to do to make your man happy at home.
Men are easy ladies, they just want a few things from their women. Here is what they want most in a relationship.
1. Men are visual- Try and look your best. Don't let yourself go. Do your hair and make-up. Get rid of the granny panties and wear something sexy for them.
2.Sex- and lots of lovemaking. They are passionate too but they want to feel loved and this is number one on the list. If he is not getting it WATCH OUT!!! he will stray.
3. Support- They want their woman to be supportive to listen and communicate. No nagging big turnoff.They want your love and support. Listen to them if you don't, watch out because they may find someone else to pour their heart out too. DO NOTLET THIS HAPPEN!
4. Love- Show them! They like actions more than words. A nice back rub, a tender kiss on the lips it doesn't take much to show them.
5. FOOD- They want a nice Home-cooked meal. You don't have to cook everyday but at least 3 times a week is good. Get to a mans heart through his stomach.
6. They want a nice clean home to come home too!
Why do men cheat? The main reason is because they are lacking something at home that their wife is not providing. Some men are never satisfied and are pathological cheaters. Not all men cheat but when they become unhappy in the relationship they can become vulnerable to outside influences. The temptation and excitement of something new may make them stray. Keep your relationship alive. Men and women who have been married along time can get used to a routine. Don't get into a routine,keep it fresh and alive. It takes two to keep it going. It starts with the person in the mirror, when you start to change, your relationship will change.
Theseare just 10 signs to look for. Don't start accusing him, keep yourself a log. If he is and you ask him he might just deney it. If you want your man back, don't let your busy every day life prevent you from spending time with your man. Men are not hard to figure out. When you show them love and respect it will only come back to you as well. These are just some tips to help.
7. Don't spend all the money. Keep a household budget in place so you don't put your man in the poor house.
Sincerely,
Sandy
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Thanks Alex
Great hub! That second top 5 list is right on the money. If a woman can manage to do all of those things at the same time, she will have one happy husband.
Thanks! Well I think most women can manage if they want to keep their marriage to be a Happy one.
I loved it! Kept me interested the whole time. Great work.
PineappleLove
Thanks very much!
Oh I love it. This is so so true. Do not ignore the warning signs women out there. :)
Good advice and interesting point of view. Would love for you to read my Hub and comment. thanks jim http://hubpages.com/hub/INFIDELITY-IN-ROMANTIC-REL
You should never blame a woman for her husbands infidelity. A man is just as responsible for keeping the relationship alive as the woman is.
Iam not blaming the woman but a man will stray if his needs are not met. This is what to look for!
Very good article! hope many people read it. Thanks
Thank you!
I've always found that the main reason for straying is that women around me make themselves just too available!! Maybe i just mix with the wrong (right?) women!
But it takes two - there are as many women straying as men... or are all the men straying with the same woman??
However I am now old enough and mature enough to realise that my current wife is the best in the world and I will not risk losing her for a quick unsatisfying fumble..
THANKS SO MUCH FOR SHARING! YOU ARE ABSOULTELY RIGHT! THERE ARE MANY WOMEN CHEATING TOO. LIKE YOU SAID WHY RISK LOSING THE BEST WIFE IN THE WORLD! YOUR WIFE IS BLESSED!
I am so tired of hearing what all the woman has to do. The man made a commitment to you for better or worse. Just stroke there ego a bit, please. Its just an excuse for a man to cheat. Its all about making a choice to decide what is right or wrong. He can change his appears for another woman but not you?
your article was informative but nothing new, however I wouild disagree with this is all a woman needs to do. I am in the divorce legal field and trust me, a man can have the most beautiful attentive wife in the world and if she throws aways his hard earned money he will divorce her. Also, what about the things a man needs to do, like hygiene, manners and help around the house that makes a woman want to take better care of her man. Marriage is a two way street to be a happy relationship. Both parties have to give 75 percent, not 50 to have a good marriage.
THis article is geared toward pleasing the husband but what about that wife tht stayed at home and raised the kids while he worked and later found out that he had been cheating on her in lieu of those "late nights at work". Instead of finding someone to do what he felt he was not getting at home, how about coming home and relieving her of Mommy duty for a while, maybe he is not getting what he needds from her bcause she is to exhausted by the time he gets home to stroke his eagle. ITS NOT ABOUT HIM, ITS ABOUT THE FAMILY HE HELP CREATE N HAS COMMITTED TO!!! just saying....
So tired of hearing "What the woman can do". How about what he can do. He has the personality/moral deficiency. Why cater to his ego and the deficiency, isn't that what he's getting on the side. Not until therapists tell men to grow up,to not blame the wives, to be the men they're supposed to be,to not fall for all the flattery from women who are looking for $$$ (raise,job, status). Just think what it would be like if men just said NO. Then, wives wouldn't be told to act like the women who lure their husbands to fantasyland.
Funny to find this article in the news....
there are opinions that forllow the article
I APPRECIATE ALL THE COMMENTS A CHEATER WILL ALWAYS PUT THE BLAME ON YOU WHEN IN FACT THEY KNOW THEY ARE WRONG. SOMETIMES IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW ATTENTIVE OR ATTRACTIVE YOU ARE. IT IS FOR BETTER OR WORSE BUT LET'S FACE IT, WHEN NEEDS ARE NOT MET THERE IS TEMPTATION. I THINK THAT IS WHY THE DIVORCE RATE IS SO HIGH.
Great blog Sandy. LL Cool J said it best, "I Need Love". Unfortunately some women feel "I have him now, so I don't have to do those things. He's not going anywhere."
Good Point! Thanks for the comment!
I am sorry but it does often come down to selfishness we went from sex 3 to 4 times per week in the first year of our mariage to 7 to 8 times per year. I asked if there was something i could do or if there was something I did and we had sex a few times then nothing again. I travel for work so the opportunity is always there and women are way more forward than men are. i have refused flirting and advances but i really am getting sick of it time to move on I am resentful and growing more bitter when I approached it again I was told if i didn't like it i had options. we have a teen and a preteen and i dont believe that gives me many options unless i am willing to risk my relationship with my kids. the other day she asked what was wrong and I didnt even say anything i just sighed and she said oh that again is that all you ever think about. I am not an adonas but I'm not a bad looking guy i have lost weight and am in pretty good shape. i also have a great career and am respected in my community for being honest forthright and hardworking. I asked if we could do counseling she said i needed counseling and i should let her know how it goes. She in the mean time has let herself go and doesnt really care its like she has already checked out not what I signed up for at all. Im stuck and i dont think she cares if i cheat or not. guess i should just have at it and say to hell with it.
Hi!Disappointed I can understand your frustration. Your wife sounds angry. Could she be resentful because of your job and the traveling? The career could be the reason. It's like the other woman even though you are hard working and doing nothing wrong. Work hard at your marriage and keep trying. Try talking and more communication find out why she feels this way LISTEN to her. Having an affair isn't the answer to solving your problem. Go to the counseling without her and hopefully she will see and this may change her mind. Trust me I have been there!
we went to a marriage counselor i am exhausted. this is tough i found out that I should just give her time I think i have been giving her all the time in the world. We approached my career and this didnt seem to be factor my wife trusts me annd the counselor said that early in the session she noticed that my wife acted indifferent to my travel almost as if she liked when I was gone. She asked my wife where she felt she had developed her selfish attitude toward intimacy. She asked her to think about it before our next session on the way home my wife asked if the lady thought she was at fault. I didnt exactly get that read on it and i told her so but she said she didnt like her. She is just trying to help and do her job. she wasnt this cold when we met but she sure is now.
Hi! Disappointed I don't know your wife but it sounds like she has fallen out of love with you. Rent the movie "Fireproof" with Kirk Cameron it is a few years old and watch it with your wife. If she will not watch it, I suggest you watch it alone. I have been there and things will get better. You need to reconnect with your wife. Most people give up and get divorced. Remember your vows for better and worse. If you get divorced and have problems with someone else, than what? Another divorce? The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Keep trying. Please keep me posted. God Bless!!!
we talked about cheating and she said she could care less if i found someone to take care of it she would be fine with it. i cannot do that i am not an adulterer. i will get divorced first.
Hi! Disappointed that it just horrible for her to say that. Did you rent the movie "Fireproff"? Feeling unloved and not wanted is not the way a marriage should be. Go to counseling for yourself and do things you enjoy get involved. Ask her, and if she declines go without her. Any woman would love to be with a confident self supporting man with a great career. I wouldn't stay married and have affairs it is considered adultry. If you do get divorced take time to heal and don't jump into a relationship. Take time for yourself.
Alex 2 years ago
Great job Sandy!
You got lots of common sense!
And you are right! We are not hard to figure out!